Bespoke Body Balancing

What is Bespoke Body Balancing?

  • Bespoke = tailored to you individually
  • Body = your holistic self: ie. Your whole being
  • Physical body and physical world experience
  • Mental/emotional body, beliefs and behaviours
  • Energy body, spiritual well-being
  • Balancing = aligning everything with your core being to achieve your natural size and shape with long term success


Is this you?

  • Chronically overweight, even obese
  • Emotional eating
  • Tried every diet there is and are back to square one again, or even bigger
  • Embarrassed about your size
  • Concerned about long term health and longevity
  • Shocked when you see photos of yourself
  • Sad, depressed, frustrated, self-conscious, ashamed
  • Angry at yourself for letting it happen

Health Consequences – Higher propensity for:

  • Heart disease
  • Cancers
  • Type II diabetes
  • Strokes
  • Dementia
  • High blood pressure
  • Back, joint and muscle pain
  • Shorter life span

Mental/Emotional Consequences – Common effects:

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Low quality of life
  • Low self esteem
  • Body resentment
  • Blame – self and others
  • Self harming
  • Unhappiness

Social Consequences:

  • Fewer friends
  • Bullied, low self confidence
  • Lower achievement:
    • Educational attainment
    • Employment status (“unprofessional” – overlooked for advancement)
    • Lower income
  • Difficulty attracting partners
  • Less likely to marry
  • More likely to divorce
  • More likely to commit suicide


There are many causes for being overweight, and just being told to eat less and exercise more is naivety on the part of those who don’t have the problem.

Common Causes

  • Genetics – the “fat gene”
  • “Hyperpalatable” foods – industrial chemists paid to make processed foods addictive
  • Emotional triggers – anger, sadness, fear, hurt, guilt – “stuffing down” emotions, rather than feel the pain
  • Addiction – an unmet need at the level of the unconscious mind
  • Insulin resistance – from consuming processed foods and sugars
  • Leptin resistance
  • Pharmaceuticals (eg. antidepressants)
  • Sugar
  • Stress
  • Junk food pricing, availability and marketing
  • Misinformation
    • The food pyramid is upside down
    • Astro-turfing where “experts” are paid to promote or negate side effects of harmful foodstuffs and publish papers on websites, Wikipedia, etc

Dieting Doesn’t Work:

  • Short termism
  • Metabolic factors (starvation mode)
  • You must eat (unlike giving up smoking, for example, where you don’t need cigarettes to survive)
  • Stress
  • Social pressures
  • Hunger – the dieter’s enemy
  • “One size fits all” approach – yet we are all different, what works for me may not work for you
  • Unconscious programming (Eg. Childhood conditioning to always clear your plate)
  • Negative Emotions – diets never address emotional eating issues
  • Weight regain (yo-yo)
    • The diet industry wants you to keep coming back


How would you like to eat what you want, when you want, achieve your ideal body shape and keep it for the long term?

Would you like to:

  • Enjoy better health, fewer illnesses
  • Improve concentration, creativity
  • Achieve your ideal body
  • Be better nourished – Many people are long term undernourished
  • Increase your joy and pleasure in food
  • Increase your energy, stamina and perseverance

How would it be if you could:

  • Eat exactly what the body needs to eat
  • When it needs to eat that
  • In the right quantities
  • For the long term good of whole being

The ideal weight for your body is the one that:

  • Allows you to run the most energy
  • Allows you to have the highest vibration
  • Allows you to be, do and have what you want to be do and have


CLUE: it’s NOT to be thin. You think being thin will make you happy, but you need to be happy to get thin!

What are you seeking?

  • Happiness
  • Love from others
  • To love yourself
  • To feel good about yourself
  • To have self worth
  • All of the above?

A negative emotion will charge every cell of the body and the unconscious mind may interpret that as hunger, causing you to meet the need with food rather than emotional release.


We have a truly holistic approach, addressing all levels of your being, tailored to your individual needs.

Before even thinking about food:

  • Release negative emotions
  • Identify and release limiting beliefs (eg. I’m not worthy)
  • Identify your health and wellbeing values
  • Strengthen your intuition
  • Banish stress
  • Show you how to make the right empowered decisions every time
  • Discover your life purpose and make a plan to live your life on purpose
  • Detox and cleanse (this will shed a few pounds on its own, but is not the complete answer)
  • Get unswitched – if you have Chronic Reversed Polarity you may find it almost impossible to achieve your desired body shape – so we deal with this first, then the rest is easy

Then once you are in a happy state:

  • Identify your ideal eating plan, eg:
    • Blood type
    • Alkaline
    • Little and often
    • Intermittent fasting
    • Ayurveda
    • High protein, low carb, etc
  • Identify which foods are life affirming and which are life depleting for you (will be different for everyone)
  • Identify any supplement needs (eg. Superfoods, immune system support)
  • Design a program that fits your individual body type, nutritional needs and lifestyle
  • Eliminate cravings and emotional eating
  • Reprogram your mind to desire the beneficial foods and find the detrimental ones undesireable
  • Teach you intuitive eating
    • How to communicate with your body to assess its needs
    • How to communicate with your food to assess whether it is beneficial or detrimental to you
  • Ongoing coaching to get you where you want to be

This is not for everyone. We only want to work with people who are committed to making massive positive change in their lives.

If you are deeply unhappy about your body size and overall state of health, possibly even diagnosed with depression, use the Contact Us form to request a free consultation where we will assess your suitability for our Bespoke Body Balancing program.

We serve clients all over the world – literally from Singapore to Seattle – thanks to the wonder of the worldwide web. We also see clients in person if you are local to or can visit Staffordshire, UK.